14 February 2025
16F Social Lounge #TheBank
Dear M—,
I saw these people and they seem to mock me at my introduction with this newest director in the office:
“Hi, I am Ella. And I am humbly bragging that I am the first woman that US onshore team hired in Managed Platforms Services — and still not moving about! If I am not a banker, I will be a writer — Shaping Pinoy Literary landscape, one story at a time.”
Masama kaya ang magkaroon ng ganoong klaseng vision sa mundong ginagalawan ko? Pasalamat nga sila hindi pa ako nagre-resign eh. I protect my work-life balance because I don’t want to be like them: working long hours and getting hungry, and for zero net benefit. Puyat ka na nga, surang-sura ka pa.
Goodness, I am even underpaid at this point! CPAs within my circle are the leads of professional diaspora and brain drain. Exploring Singapura, Malta, and Luxembourg! Those who stayed have other mouths to feed because they chose to have it so, and yet, they flourish in their respective family lives.
Bigla kong naiisip yung si Nase, the “Pinuno” behind the Ppop sensation. Way back before 2016, he went to UP and attended that Phil-Korean Friendship Summit, came out with a passion and a purpose: na sana, ang Pilipinas ay parang South Korea. Namamayagpag ang export ng sining at kultura, at nagiging source ng turismo ang bawat kanta.
Naisip ko, ganito rin ba ang naiisip nya nang sumubok sya sa auditions ng ShowBT? Habang nilalagari ang paghahanapbuhay bilang Corporate Slave at paghabol sa pangarap, paano siya lumapit sa mga kapamilya niya para lang maging dedicated sa kanyang craft? Pareho naman kaming may suntok sa buwan na purpose sa mundo ah! Hindi naman siguro masama yun. Gusto ko rin ang reach ni Bob Ong mismo! Si Bob Ong na malakas pa rin ang hatak sa mga mas batang henerasyon, ang humubog sa millenial generation sa pamamagitan ng pagkatha ng iba’t-ibang istilo ng pagkukwento.
“Shaping Pinoy Literary landscape, one story at a time.” May mga araw talaga na feeling ko hindi na ako meant dito sa workplace, pero I cannot afford to leave. If that guy has a family to go back to— I don’t. I honestly don’t. In a world where there is class A employee who can simply retire and be a stay-at-home wife, I cannot afford to fail. Heck, I cannot even afford to marry and have a kid! I am old to birth a son, too old to date men poorer than what I earn, and I am heaving in this long apocalypse of hyperinflated prices and a hyperventilate-inducing anxiety.
Gusto ko lang kumuda nang ganito kahaba para lang mawala na ang pagkaasar ko sa tingin ng mga tao sa akin na hindi naniniwala sa pagpapakilala ko sa tao. Kung ayaw nila maniwala, eh di hatdog sa kanila. Basta ako, may purpose na ako. Ito ang paraan ko ng pagbuo sa sarili ko at dahilan sa bawat pagbangon.
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